Some quotes I hope hope may resonate with you.
"The main thing - treat people with respect and you can avoid most of the problems this world has to offer." - Joshua Brown
"The obedient always think of themselves as virtuous rather than cowardly." - Robert Anton Wilson
"It is hard to imagine a more stupid or more dangerous way of making decisions than by putting those decisions in the hands of people who pay no price for being wrong." - Thomas Sowell
"Self-awareness is the most attractive trait." - Naval Ravikant