Some quotes I hope may resonate with you.
"Life is not always a matter of holding good cards, but sometimes, playing a poor hand well." - Jack London
"Thought precedes action as lightning precedes thunder."- Heinrich Heine
"Outcomes are about what you get. Processes are about what you do. Identity is about what you believe." - James Clear
"I won't be wronged, I won't be insulted, I won't be laid a hand on. I don't do these things to other people, and I require the same from them." -John Wayne in The Shootist